fitnah

Pernah rasa difitnah? apa dia fitnah? bagi orang yang kurang arif dan jahil macam aku ni, apabila orang mengatakan kita melakukan sesuatu yang kita tak buat itu dianggap fitnah la kan? apalagi kalau ianya melibatkan maruah. Maka, berdasarkan pemahaman aku ni, aku dengan ini mengsiyhtiharkan yang aku telah difitnah!

Sebenarnya, ini bukan kali pertama ianya terjadi pada tahun ni... dah 2-3 cerita dah yang keluar pasal aku... well, mungkin aku ni ala-ala celebrity macam Datuk Siti Nurhaliza dan Paris Hilton! (haha..) Tapi aku buat bodoh je sebab malas nak layan. lagipun masih boleh dibendung dan tidak mengaibkan . However, the latest story yang keluar ni memang tak boleh dimaafkan! kalau aku buat bodoh jugak, maka bodohlah jadinya aku nanti! apatah lagi, ianya melibatkan maruah dan reputasi aku! nasib baik la aku ni bukanlah dalam kategori yg jahat sangat (yelah, takkan nak mengaku diri tu baik pulak kan?) so, bila fitnah ni baru keluar dari mulut seorang pompuan bengong, kawan-kawan mmg tak percaya dan terus bagitau aku! memang angin satu badan! berdesing je telinga! ikutkan hati aku, nak je aku call or berdepan dgn pompuan bengong tu dan taruk dia cukup-cukup! tapi, takan le nak meletakkan darjat aku sehina dan serendah dia kan? aku perlu bertindak secara rasional dan profesional.. kalau pompuan bengong tu ingat aku akan berdiam diri je kali ni, well i have news for u darling - u have waken up a dragon! (chewah!). Well, this is what i've planned to do. first, i'm going to organize a meeting with my friends. i am to accumulate facts, info and witnesses as well. then, i'm going straight to the 'people up there'. i want them to know the truth and put a stop to every lie and fitnah and of couse take action on that pompuan bengong. if there isn't any action taken, i'll lodge a report to the police and use the internet - blogs, portals, youtube, to clean my name. how's that?

Tetapi yang menghairankan aku tu, pompuan bengong ni tak rasa bersalah ke? tak rasa takut pada tuhan ke bila buat citer ni? bila buat fitnah ni? dan tidakkah dia terfikir bahawa cerita ni akan sampai juga pada aku? memang bengong punya pompuan! sesuailah dengan label yang aku berikan pada dia! tunggu ajelah pompuan bengong... masa kau akan tiba!

wishes

Oh gosh! it's been ages since the last time i wrote in here... have been trying to find time, and finally tonite i got the time and the 'mood'.

Life has been hectic for the past few weeks... work, my charitable activities and not forgetting my 'career program'. i always wish that i had a driver to drive me around so that i could rest more in the car. i also wish i had a PA to help me with things.. there are groups of people that i need to ring up, tons of things that i need to attend to, heaps of problems that need my attention.. there are times when i wish i had a machine that could clone myself! haha.. crazy am i not? how i wish i had enough money to hire a driver and get myself a good PA! hmmm..... i guess with the condition and the financial situation that i am in right now, i have to be grateful to just have me! well, at least i am physically, mentally and spiritally healthy to keep the ball rolling... alhamdulillah..

Raya! Raya! Raya! - 2nd Day

It was an eventful day. Pakngah and son, Che U and kids, Pakcik N and family and my eldest sis and family had arrived. We were to start our journey to Kedah. Pakcik and family went first. The rest went to Dato' H's open house. He is sort of my secondary boss. I respect him but we are not really bonded to each other. It was merely a business relationship. Next stop was YB N's open house. She is a good friend of mine. We have known each other for about 8 years. Although we are both of the same age, she is much wiser and more mature than me. That's the advantage of studying and living abroad for few years! All my uncles, aunts and cousins like to go to YB N's house. Apart from fantastic food, she is always warm with all her guests. I met more of our friends there and of course being girls, we gossipped a little bit! hehe..

Then we headed home to pack our bags. Our convoy started aroung 3pm. I drove all the way to Alor Star! I love driving, but I always miss the scenery along the way :-(. We reached my uncle's house about 6.30pm. There were about 12 families gathered for this auspicuos event. Because of the number, my uncle had to rent 2 units of homestay. It was actually a 3-in-1 gathering. One was to celebrate the eid mubarak. Two was to welcome a new member to the family - a cousin of ours got married recently. Three was to welcome back our cousin sister who had finished her medical degree in moscow. That night we had a simple, nice but noisy dinner. It was good to be with everybody again. I missed my cousins sooooo much and I intended to have lots of fun with them. Eventhough before this I dreaded myself to go to Kedah, at that momet I knew I wouldn't regret spending my raya holiday in Kedah... ;-)

Raya! Raya! Raya! - 1st Day

Unlike the years before, there were only my parents, my brother, my 2nd sis, my widowed aunt and myself on the first day of raya. Of course my nephews and niece were with us, only for the first few hours in the morning though for later they were sent to their mom. After the eid prayer, we went to Dato' M's house - a good friend of my parents. Her lontong and soto were beyond praise. Later we headed to dad's kampung, which is just about 30 minutes away. We went straight to the cemetery presenting doa to our relatives especially my grandad whom I never met and my grandmum who loved us dearly. We had fond memories together but she was gone when I was in my kindergaten year. Later, we proceeded to my aunt's house where we met more aunts and cousins there. But the best part was they had MAZOLA cookies! My old time favourite! Oh, and the lemang and rendang was simply delicious! hehe... me and food!

Then, we rushed home to cook our usual - nasi minyak, ayam masak upur, dalca and jelatah. My friend Mun See and her family came around 2.30 and they really enjoyed the food. Our friendship is a unique one.. We don't keep in touch all the time but every year during raya, she would come to my house. She has been doing this way before she got married and now she is a mom to a cute 2 years old Benjamin. Her husband, Simon, a fine young man, is a chatter box like myself, thus, we connect perfectly. Fiona, Mun See's niece has been tagging along to my house since she was in primary. Now, she's sitting for her PMR and has blossomed to a very gorgeous young girl! She will undoubtedly break a lot of hearts! And knowing that she loves lemang, I forced my dad to get some lemang just for Fiona. Really love to have them around during raya!

Sheed and family came quite late.. around 7pm. I thought there would only be herself and hubby but her sisters in law and their family were there as well! Mo man tai though! The more, the merrier. We served them nasi minyak as well. But sadly, I didn't get the chance to have a decent conversation with sheed... hmm....

Later that nite my father's side, two aunts, my cousin sister with her family and my cousin brother came for dinner. We seldom have them in our house. I pity my father very much. He loves his siblings dearly. He visits them quite frequently. When he can't find time, he would call them to ask how they are doing. But they seldom treat him the same way. And for them to come over to our house, well, my dad literally has to force them! They came tonight only after my dad being rather sarcastic this morning. We've been wondering what is it that makes them uncomfortable to be in our house. Why they can go to other people's house, somtimes outside of Perak, but they always find excuses to come to ours. Academically and economically we are better than them, but I believe we have never treated them differently... hmmm... kesian abah...

Nevertheless, today was not perfect but it wasn't bad either.